Am I Being Unreasonable?
Take this free 2-minute fairness check to find out how balanced your perspective really is — and what you might be missing.
Who is this disagreement with?
This helps us tailor the perspective-taking questions.
How the fairness check works
Choose your context
Tell us who the disagreement is with so we can tailor the questions.
Answer 6 questions
Honest perspective-taking questions about empathy, flexibility, and self-awareness.
Get your profile
See your fairness score, insights about your blind spots, and actionable next steps.
Frequently asked questions
How does the fairness check work?+
It asks 6 perspective-taking questions across dimensions like empathy, flexibility, communication, proportionality, self-awareness, and perspective. Your answers are scored and combined into a fairness profile.
Is this quiz scientifically validated?+
The questions are inspired by conflict resolution research on perspective-taking and cognitive bias, but this is an educational self-reflection tool, not a clinical assessment.
Is my data private?+
Yes, 100%. This tool runs entirely in your browser. No answers are sent to any server, stored, or shared.
What should I do after getting my results?+
Use the insights to reflect before your next conversation. If you want structured help, try our free AI mediation tool.
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